Issue: 10.03 | March 18, 2009 | by:
Sonia Pressman Fuentes
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A Negative Experience, A Positive Outcome CNN.com has a story on its home page this morning called "Eight
Successful People Grateful They Got Canned." That reminded me of a similar
situation in my own life, which I set down for the first time and sent to
CNN. I thought you might like to add it to your collection of my papers at
the Schlesinger Library, and it follows: "I am one of the founders of the second wave of the women's
movement. I was a founder of NOW and FEW (Federally Employed Women) and
the first woman attorney in the Office of the General Counsel at the EEOC (Equal
Employment Opportunity Commission). "At the end of 1981, I accepted a position with one of this
country's top corporations in Cleveland, Ohio, to be in charge of their Equal
Employment Opportunity (EEO) and Affirmative Action programs. It was a daunting
decision because acceptance required me to move, as a newly-single mother
with my nine-year-old daughter, to the Midwest--a part of the country I had
never expected to live in since I had spent my entire life (since coming to the
US from Germany at the age of five) in the East. "My time at this corporation was rocky because I realized after
I came aboard that the company had hired me because (1) at that time the
federal government was requiring that companies improve their diversity policies
and (2) so the company could say it had a well-known feminist on board, although
it did not really want anything done about its EEO policies. "In 1984, at the request of my boss, I prepared a slide
presentation to be shown to the company's chairman and president on the
company's EEO situation. The presentation I prepared revealed problems in
recordkeeping with regard to diversity at the company's west coast
operation. When he learned what the presentation would show, my boss said,
`You're not going to hang that on the west coast!’ and shortly thereafter, I was
fired. "I was devastated--I had moved my family to the Midwest, I
was 56 years old, and did not know what I was going to do. "Everyone told me not to bother trying to find another job
as no one would hire a 56-year-old woman. But I felt I had no choice--I
had worked all my adult life, wanted to continue, and had to support myself and
my daughter. I began to seek other employment. It took me a
year-and-a-quarter, during which time my brother gave me loans that tided me
over, and then I was offered a position as an attorney in the Office of the
General Counsel at HUD (U.S. Department of Housing & Urban
Development). This brought me back to Washington, DC, where I had
previously spent 16 years as an attorney with the federal government. I
stayed there until my retirement in 1993, thus adding considerably to my pension
with the federal government. Shortly thereafter, I began to write my
memoir, Eat First--You Don't Know What They'll Give You, The Adventures of an
Immigrant Family and Their Feminist Daughter, became a writer and a public
speaker, was inducted into the Maryland Women's Hall of Fame, and moved to
Sarasota, FL, where I created a new life for myself. My discharge (which,
with the help of a Cleveland attorney, was turned into a resignation)
turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to me." Copyright 2009 by Sonia Pressman
Fuentes. |
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Sonia is one of the founders of the National Organization for Women (NOW) and a member of our Megillah family. |
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