| Ooh, I just love driving in May. Upon entering the car there 
is a real thrill of anticipation. Why? Mother's Day is coming, and so is my 
favorite gift of the year.
 It started years ago, when my boy was a young'n without much to spend. One year, 
I told him that he really didn't need to blow his allowance buying me yet 
another bath set, there was something that would be much better, and it wouldn't 
cost him a cent.
 
 Naturally, his eyes brightened at that thought, and so did mine. We made a trip 
to the store for supplies, then Giles detailed my car for Mother's Day. Now, 
this was no easy chore, but he settled down to work, with the only condition 
being that I was not allowed to peek until it was finished. Wowee! Wheels 
glistening, tires cleaned and shining with wax, paint job gleaming, upholstery 
scrubbed, and not a single crumb or bit of dust anywhere to be seen inside. He 
even used cotton swabs on the air vents.
 
 We hopped in, and I felt like a queen driving him out for a well-deserved 
ice-cream sundae. He's been doing this for me for twenty years, and it is just 
as wonderful as ever. I start talking about it a month ahead of time, lest he 
get any notion that I really need some perfume or dusting powder.
 
 That little guy without much pocket money grew up to become a doctor. His time 
is sure worth a lot more these days, but he still cleans my car himself. Nothing 
on Earth could be more precious.
 
 There is nothing more guaranteed to make Mom feel special than the gift of time. 
We don't want fancy buffet brunches with too much fat and sodium for them to be 
enjoyed without guilt. If we want to smell pretty, there is nothing to stop us 
buying our own fragrances, and having fun accumulating the gifts with purchase.
 
 What do we need? Someone to clean the oven, and spare our backs those hours of 
bending over. Help to reach the top shelves, so we can reorganize the linen 
cupboard. A pair of non-arthritic hands to write a new address book for us from 
all those scraps of paper in the drawer. A long conversation and foot massage 
from loving fingers.
 
 We don't need bouquets delivered by strangers. Just hand us a dandelion from the 
lawn, and spend a few hours. Remember, the most beautiful sight we ever saw was 
your first smile, and we enjoy the ones today just as much.
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