EDDY'S PAGE
by Eddy Robey M.A.

Of late, there is a great deal of talk about looking at "The Big Picture". The health care system, global warming, various crises in the Middle East: are all examples of things which dominate conversation. I'm not sure why, but it seems that the big pictures of interest are always frightening and/or ugly.

While it is necessary to discuss these issues, there is a tiresome sameness to what is said. Someone calls the people in positions of leadership idiots, crooks, or worse. Several folks agree with the invective, and chip in with predictions of disaster. A few horror stories are related, then it is time to leave. Guests depart with a feeling of oneness over their shared anger.

There are some things which are usually not said during these gatherings. Those who complain about the coldness of the heath care system seldom speak of their attempts to add warmth by reading aloud to sick children, or spending afternoons being helpful to the residents of nursing homes. People who are rightly concerned about climate change, don't mention volunteering at their local botanic gardens or other places which do helpful research toward community betterment. Folks who express a desire for peace between religious groups have few tales to tell of personal steps taken toward friendship with those of other creeds.

There is nothing wrong with having a community kvetch, but it is important to remember the positive steps we can take toward making the world a better place. I cannot solve the Middle East situation, yet have a lovely friendship with a Moslem neighbor, and tell others who might be scared of her how nice she is. I can help bring humanity to medical care by encouraging my son the physician to look in on any of my neighbors who are feeling poorly. Whenever someone asks me for an activity suggestion, I send them to one of our local gardens, and encourage them to make a contribution in excess of the minimum admission charge.

Be grateful for little miracles.