EDDY'S PAGE
by Eddy Robey M.A.

People everywhere are saying that the world has changed because of the sad events which took place on September 11th of 2001. Each time I hear this, it makes me think about the ways in which some things are the same, and how some messages must remain eternal.

There are many calling for justice in terms which bespeak their hurt and anger. Justice is a complex topic for the people of the law. While there is no doubt that punishment is demanded for criminals, it is also true that every opportunity for compassion must be taken. It is disturbing to hear anyone speak in a racist or irresponsible fashion.

What most concerns me is that our sprits and traditions must remain uppermost in our minds. Last year, when I mailed my customary Rosh Hashana messages of forgiveness, there were some who reproached me, saying that those thoughts were inappropriate because of current events. The events of today come and go. It is now time to turn our hearts to that which is without end.

At the new year, we are taught to train our thoughts on the principles of Tefillah (Prayer), Tshuvah (Often translated as repentance, but more accurately making amends, or a return to wholeness), and Tzedakah (Charity).

Just now, the media are full of stories about prayer and charity, in how Americans are relating to one another. It is just as important for us to think about how each of us are reconciled to our fellows.

Too often, when we do something hurtful to another, there is a tendency to avoid a discussion of the issue. Sometimes there is a hastily mumbled apology, after which we tell ourselves or others that, "I did all I could."

Did we? Did we ask the person who was harmed if there was anything which we could do that would help them to feel better, a way for us to make amends? We can never erase the past, but there may be some small act of caring which will help their hearts feel whole again.

There is nothing new about unexpected, violent death. Indeed, it is incumbent upon people of caring to live their lives as though that may happen at any moment, to them or their loved ones. Although we may remember September 11th of 2001, the lesson of today is both old and ageless, live each day with love.

Would you like to do good for the world during these troubled times? Meet this challenge. Seek out someone you have hurt. Do not consider whether you hurt them deliberately, or how long ago it may have been. Acknowledge their pain, and ask if there is anything you can do to ease it.

As we celebrate the birthday of creation, let our spirits be reborn in the courage to be loving.