I receive hundreds of emails a week. I also find good ol' snail mail in my
postal box every morning, but it does not come close to the volume of my
electronic correspondence. The ubiquity of personal computers makes keeping in
touch easier than ever. It's very satisfying to know that seconds after you
click SEND, the recipient will be reading your thoughts and can respond in the
blink of an eye. The old-fashioned written missive, which had to be posted in
the mailbox, took three days to a week to reach the addressee. By the time the
response came, I usually had to remind myself of what I was talking about in the
original letter.
Now, not only can we receive an immediate reply to our questions, thoughts or
comments, but most of the time, we will find a copy of the original message
along with the response. Finding a copy of my own words at the bottom is very
useful because with my increasingly deficient memory, I often need a reminder of
what burning issue motivated me to write in the first place. Then again, there
are those times, when I would prefer my original words had been lost, but that
is a different issue.
Sometimes my bulging Inbox overwhelms me and I wonder how I am going to deal
with it all. When I think about it, I realize I am lucky to have so many people
who wish to communicate with me. Spammers aside, the vast majority of the emails
I receive are from people who are reaching out in my direction to say hello, ask
a question, provide information or bring a smile to my face with a joke. Every
message I receive from an individual means someone is thinking of me. Far from
finding the large number of emails I receive a problem, I think of them as a
terrific compliment.
Sadly, our world can be a lonely place filled with individuals who crave human
contact and support. These people would be delighted to receive letters, email
or snail mail, just to know they are being thought of. It would be ungrateful of
me, to complain about having so many people who wish to include me in their
lives.
A large part of the mail I receive is from the members of my Megillah family. In
the past four years, I have made many new friends and acquaintances through this
publication. I am unable to give an accurate count of those I am in regular
contact with, but I can say, the official number of subscribers alone exceeds
1,400. I also receive Megillah related mail from people who are not on the
actual mailing list. I am blessed with an abundance of wonderful people who have
become fast and close friends or friendly acquaintances. You all fill my life
with satisfaction and a sense of usefulness and gratitude.
I urge anyone who feels overwhelmed with email to re-think the issue. Throw out
the junk for sure, but be grateful for the personal messages you receive. You
are indeed special if so many people think it is important to keep in touch with
you, and make you a part of their lives.
As is customary, I wish to thank everyone who made a financial contribution to
the Megillah fund this past month; your money has been put to good use. Our
server fees continue to rise and the cost of information sources are constantly
increasing. Unlike so many other online publications, we intend to keep our
promise of never charging a fee for a Megillah subscription and membership. All
we ask for are donations from those who can afford to help defray the costs of
providing this service. Every little bit helps, so don't be shy. A small amount
added to the rest, always makes a big difference in our ability to maintain the
quality and continuation of the Megillah. Please click on the Tzedakeh box, on
the home page, or go to this link for easy instructions,
http://www.pass.to/newsletter/tzedakeh.htm.
Enjoy the dog days of summer. As the old song goes, "See You in September."
Much love to all of you,
Michael - Editor
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