THE FOLLOWING IS A CHINESE GOOD LUCK TANTRA TOTEM.
1 - Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
2 - Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.
3 - Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
4 - When you say, "I love you", mean it.
5 - When you say, "I'm sorry", look the person in the eye.
6 - Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
7 - Believe in love at first sight.
8 - Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't have much.
9 - Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.
10 - In disagreements, fight fairly. Please No name calling.
11 - Don't judge people by their relatives.
12 - Talk slowly but think quickly.
13 - When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?"
14 - Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
15 - Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze.
16 - When you lose, don't lose the lesson.
17 - Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; Responsibility for all your actions.
18 - Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
19 - When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
20 - Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.
21 - Spend some time alone.